But, very often, this is not an option and we are forced to be in close proximity of this person.For example, it may not be possible to distance yourself from your ‘annoying’ uncle at Christmas dinner or quit your job because your boss is ‘annoying’.When someone says or does something, it is neutral.
So when people ask us about these major life events, they are also assuming that all couples have complete control of their marriage milestones. After Mike and I married, we spent a lot of time laying around, enjoying each other's company — and eating. After we married both of our savings evaporated, like magic. There is something about marriage that makes money disappear as quickly as it appears. 4.) I hate having long hair, but Mike dislikes short hair on me. I got the message, loud and clear, and my hair is back to being long. That's how we handle all the trivial (and significant) challenges of married life.
It took five years for us to conceive our second daughter, who is eight years younger than our first. I cut my hair short recently — then I noticed that Mike immediately stopped shaving. Instead, love your spouse, and focus on the positives.
"Jilland Mike." Once people are used to a couple, your names become permanently merged. He failed to see the humor.) Yes, I am a feminist, a strong, independent woman, and I took my husband's last name.
"Jennand Liam," "Jaimieand Vinny," and "Jimand Liz" are a few of our friends. I have been asked why numerous times — like I am selling out or losing my feminist cred. I wanted to have the same last name as my children.
In the 11 years since our wedding day, Mike and I have experienced our fair share of "annoyances" that crop up when you're a married couple.
Though we've gotten used to them, these are some of the things that bug me most. They're people, and shouldn't be classified like baked goods.
In many cases, the only thing you can do is to change your thoughts.
Another important point is that other people in themselves are not annoying.
However, if my thoughts about his actions stay neutral, I will not get annoyed.
Similarly, if a car pulls up next to you at a stop light and the driver is blasting music that you are not fond of, you have a choice.